22 Best Remote Control Vibrators for Solo & Couples Fun 2022
Whether you’re looking for a vibrator that can blend seamlessly with the decor of your bedroom or are just looking for a more out-of-the-ordinary device for your collection—you have options. The Crave Vesper is both of those things, with its long, sleek body that has multiple settings (including gentle and oscillating) for external use. “In addition to being easy-to-use, Vesper provides an aesthetic jewelry experience,” says Ti Chang, VP of Design and co-founder of Crave. If you like to engage in a little backdoor action, check out this beginner-friendly butt plug designed specifically for people with vulvas. It’s slim with an asymmetric base that won’t block the vaginal opening, and the curved tulip shape guides penises or toys toward the G-spot. Some are curved or have bulbous ends for G-spot stimulation , like the Lovehoney G-Slim G-Spot Vibrator ($20, Lovehoney).
And the fun doesn’t have to stop in the shower or bathtub because the Little Secret has a waterproof (IPX7) finish. The premium silicone design, waterproof functionality, USB rechargeability, and 5-year warranty make it a more justifiable investment for those seeking the best in clitoral stimulation. As its name suggests, bullet vibrators are handheld vibrators typically shaped like bullets (and often roughly the same size). Similar to the egg vibrator, bullet vibrators offer pinpointed external stimulation to your erogenous zones, and some models are designed to stimulate the G-spot as well. That’s why we scoured online reviews, consulted with sex therapists and talked to real couples to figure out the best sex toys for long-distance relationships.
But the vibrator bends exactly the way you want it, so you can hit just the right spots. This Je Joue option (as its name indicates) is the love-child of the classic rabbit and fun-sized bullet vibrator, with ears that flutter against or hug the clit for orgasmic ripples. Just shy of four inches long, it’s ideal for when you want all the clitoral stimulation of a rabbit vibe in a pocket-friendly size. “Don’t be fooled by how cute this toy is—the low rumble of Je Joue’s motor packs some serious power for an intense climax,” Babeland brand manager Lisa Finn previously told SELF. Just note that, unlike other rabbit vibrators, this one doesn’t target the G-spot. A favorite of sex-toy blogger Epiphora, the bejeweled pastel Pillow Talk Sassy is affordably priced and offers powerful vibrations that can work for either clitoral or G-spot stimulation.
Glamour sex toy reviewer, Amanda Chatel, says this vibrator is one of her all time favourite sex toys. “While I tend to use the Gigi 2 more often for clitoral stimulation, when it comes to internal action, it’s definitely a favourite. That flattened tip full of girth woos me almost every time …” she wrote in her review.
Unlike other popular vibrators, which you use on yourself, a remote control sex toy is one whose settings can be changed by someone else. It’s natural for individuals to feel apprehensive or shy about engaging in public play. Open communication and gradual exploration can help partners overcome inhibitions and discover new levels of intimacy. Start with small-scale activities, such as wearing a discreet vibrator on a low setting during a leisurely stroll. Alcohol may help ease initial nerves, but moderation is key to maintaining control and enjoyment. As is the case for many women, orgasming during sex ain’t easy for me, and I thought this revolutionary vibrator might have the potential to change that.
But staring across the room at the new Godin Connaisseur MJ, glowing in soft spring sunlight, I kept thinking about two very classic American guitar companies. Martin and Rickenbacker are famous for very different things, and one of them rarely made acoustic instruments. But check out the Godin’s sunburst finish—it sure reminds me of Rickenbackerfireglo. The herringbone-patterned purling evokes that found on a D-28 as well as Rickenbacker’s checkerboard binding. There are practical reasons that this Godin feels like an alternate-universe offspring from the two American companies—most notably the super-satisfying playability.
This stroker is so high-tech, it makes a standard Fleshlight look like a lubed-up toilet paper roll. The Lovense Max offers not only a pleasurably textured interior, but also vibration that surrounds your dick, and rhythmic contractions that squeeze and massage it. If you prefer gentler, pinpointed stimulation, the Lelo Dot may be the best choice for you. The teardrop-shaped Dot looks a bit odd at first glance, but its accessible design offers focused clitoral stimulation. There’s nothing worse than fumbling around with buttons while you’re trying to get in the zone, either alone or with a partner.
Two decades later, Hitachi is still beloved, but now there are other contenders competing in the wand arena. Multiple screener, scalper & sieves design options are available to size and separate materials, or remove unwanted materials from a batch, such as liquids, fines or over-sized product. External stimulation is my jam, and whether I had the lower arm inserted or not the shell would wobble around. I couldn’t get it to stay in place unless I pressed it against myself vibrators, which was a bit annoying.
In addition to 14 speed and intensity settings, ‘climax control’ allows users to play around with the depth of suction, so you’re bound to find something that works for you. Before you purchase a sex toy, check that it’s body-safe (like all of our picks are). Single-use sex toys are “the most underrated option for first-time sex-toy owners,” according to one SELF sexual wellness writer.
Its run time on a full charge is relatively short at just one hour, though, so make sure you’re never too far away from the charger. Lovers may come and go, but you can always count on the best clitoral vibrators to get you off whenever you please. Yes, there are tons of sex toys made for G-spot stimulation like rabbit vibrators and dildos. But for people who can only (or simply prefer to) orgasm through clitoral stimulation, or are looking for devices that mimic oral sex, there are more high-quality external titillation options than ever. The Lovense Lush 3 is one of the best hands-free sex toys, hands down (pun intended).